Whose Rights?

by Joe Fitzgerald

One thing you have to give the parental rights authoritarians. At least they’re more honest about their goals than some of their thematic ancestors.

Slave codes were not slave codes. They were master codes. Leftists in the 1950s weren’t involved in unamerican activities. The House committee harassing them was. Dissent and disagreement are supposed to be the American way, except to whatever faction is in charge and defining or redefining what’s American at any given time.

But parents’ rights, the latest right-wing lie designed to inflame rather than inform, is at least clear about who it’s aimed at. Teacher’s rights? Unless we’re talking about the right to be accused of corrupting and indoctrinating children, that’s not an issue for the rightists. Children’s rights? They have none in the world-view of people like the majority on the Rockingham County School Board.

Glenn Youngkin was elected in part based on Terry McAuliffe’s very accurate statement that parents shouldn’t be deciding what their children are taught. He could have added that a parent should not make that decision in a public school unless the parent has at least a master of education degree, or perhaps unless that parent can parse and reply to this sentence with something more than an aggrieved grunt of “parents’ rights.”

The parental rights in question during that regrettable campaign mostly centered around two issues: personal pronouns and Critical Race Theory. The issue of personal pronouns cannot be easily simplified. If it could, we’d have to ask why, if it’s a family issue, are public school teachers being required to fill out forms.

The answer is of course that some children simply cannot talk to their parents about issues of gender discomfort without being harangued, punished, or forced to go against their natures. The pronoun forms in Rockingham let the parents whose children can’t talk to them know which ones to harangue.

As to Critical Race Theory, it’s hardly taught in public schools, and then only in advanced classes where the 17-year-olds exposed to it presumably have greater critical thinking skills than, just for instance, many school board members.

The rightists protecting parental rights at the expense of children’s education also like to speak of their banned books as being in the classroom. Small surprise that they don’t know the difference between a classroom and a library, nor do they seem to understand that a kid doesn’t have to look for a book in the library if he or she can find the trashy parts on the rightists’ own booklooks website. I have to wonder if booklooks is blocked in the schools. (Daenerys, by the way, is taller and slimmer than Emilia Clarke in the booklooks excerpts, but doesn’t wear any more.)

The general rights protected by people like the RCSB are the right to control one’s children and the right to limit what they learn. The more specific right, embodied in the pronoun forms, is to remove the school as refuge for those who can’t talk to their parents so that parents can enforce identity according to the psychological science of the Old Testament.

There are dismissive phrases for those who embrace their own ignorance and hurl adjectives instead of facts at those they see as adversaries. The most incisive one is, “Read a book.”

Joe Fitzgerald is a former mayor of Harrisonburg. Republished with permission from Still Not Sleeping.


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68 responses to “Whose Rights?”

  1. James Kiser Avatar
    James Kiser

    So where does does anal sex and strap on dildo’s belong in school? Why should boys who pretend to be girls be allowed to rape girls in the girls room?As to Crt interesting that Fairfax county still requires a % of black kids to be admitted at TJ based on skin color where as admitting Asian American kids is to be restricted based on their race.

    1. 1. Sex Education. Teaching methods that have lower or no risk of pregnancy sound like something Pro-Lifers would eagerly get behind (phrasing?).
      2. They aren’t.
      3. Racial quotas are not indicative of the lesson plan.

    2. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
      Dick Hall-Sizemore

      It is not true that there is a percentage of Black students for TJ. Here is the process for selecting students for an entering class:

      The basic requirement for any applicant is enrollment in honors course and a minimum 3.5 GPA. Applicants are then evaluated on the extent they have exhibited certain traits such as creativity, problem solving, leadership, etc. They then have to submit a “problem-solving” essay. A final set of criteria weighs experience factors such as economic disadvantage, English language learner, and special education.

      There are 550 seats in each entering class. Each public school in Fairfax County and each cooperation locality (Arlington, Falls Church, Loudoun, and Prince William; it is a regional school) is allocated a number of “seats” in the entering class equal to 1.5 percent of that school’s 8th grade class. The balance of the seats are deemed “unallocated”. For the allocated seats, students will compete against other applicants from their schools and the applicants with the highest evaluations will be awarded admission. All the remaining applicants will be considered for the unallocated seats with those with the highest evaluations awarded admission.

      Race is not a criteria to be considered at any point in the process. There are no racial quotas or targets.

      https://www.fcps.edu/registration/thomas-jefferson-high-school-science-and-technology-admissions/tjhsst-freshman
      https://www.fcps.edu/registration/thomas-jefferson-admissions/eligibility-requirements

    3. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
      Dick Hall-Sizemore

      It is not true that there is a percentage of Black students required for TJ. Here is the process for selecting students for an entering class:

      The basic requirement for any applicant is enrollment in honors course and a minimum 3.5 GPA. Applicants are then evaluated on the extent they have exhibited certain traits such as creativity, problem solving, leadership, etc. They then have to submit a “problem-solving” essay. A final set of criteria weighs experience factors such as economic disadvantage, English language learner, and special education.

      There are 550 seats in each entering class. Each public school in Fairfax County and each cooperation locality (Arlington, Falls Church, Loudoun, and Prince William; it is a regional school) is allocated a number of “seats” in the entering class equal to 1.5 percent of that school’s 8th grade class. The balance of the seats are deemed “unallocated”. For the allocated seats, students will compete against other applicants from their schools and the applicants with the highest evaluations will be awarded admission. All the remaining applicants will be considered for the unallocated seats with those with the highest evaluations awarded admission.

      Race is not a criteria to be considered at any point in the process. There are no racial quotas or targets.

      https://www.fcps.edu/registration/thomas-jefferson-high-school-science-and-technology-admissions/tjhsst-freshman
      https://www.fcps.edu/registration/thomas-jefferson-admissions/eligibility-requirements

      1. walter smith Avatar
        walter smith

        Wink wink

        1. “experience factors”…

          1. Lefty665 Avatar

            Nod nod

  2. Who peed in Joe’s cereal? Wow. I thought I was reading a campaign speech from Hillary or Biden.

  3. Eric the half a troll Avatar
    Eric the half a troll

    What the so-called “parental rights” argument really is is an attempt by Conservatives to infringe on my rights to be represented by my duly elected local school board member. It is as simple as that. Thankfully, they are largely failing.

    1. So, basically, your opinion is that you have the right to try to influence your school board’s decisions, but people with whom you disagree do not. Is that it?

      Because that’s about all it can be. The “parent’s rights” crowd have not gotten any legislation passed or policies adopted which require school boards do do what they say. All they have done is make their voices heard.

      If certain school board members agree that some of their concerns are valid then what is the problem? I mean, what is the problem apart from you disagreeing with those school board members?

    2. So, basically, your opinion is that you have the right to try to influence your school board’s decisions, but people with whom you disagree do not. Is that it?

      Because that’s about all it can be. The “parent’s rights” crowd have not gotten any legislation passed or policies adopted which require school boards do do what they say. All they have done is make their voices heard.

      If certain school board members agree that some of their concerns are valid then what is the problem? I mean, what is the problem apart from you disagreeing with those school board members?

    3. So, basically, your opinion is that you have the right to try to influence your school board’s decisions, but people with whom you disagree do not. Is that it?

      Because that’s about all it can be. The “parent’s rights” crowd have not gotten any legislation passed or policies adopted which require school boards do do what they say. All they have done is make their voices heard.

      And if certain school board members agree that some of their concerns are valid then what is the problem? I mean, what is the problem apart from you disagreeing with those school board members?

      1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        “The “parent’s rights” crowd have not gotten any legislation passed or policies adopted which require school boards do do what they say”

        Well, they have been successful in elevating the rights of some parents over others. For instance, if a parent says they do not want their transgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is the policy no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them. However, if a parent requests that their child be addressed by the pronoun that corresponds to their gender identity, the policy says teachers can not be forced to do so if they choose not to.

        Excluding certain books in schools from all students (not just opting their own kids out) is another drive of these parents.

        As I said, luckily they are largely losing.

        1. Well, they have been successful in elevating the rights of some parents over others. For instance, if a parent says they do not want their transgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is the policy no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them.

          That is not elevating the rights of some parents over those of others.

          Is it not also true that if a parent says they do not want their cisgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is also the policy, no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them?

          Of course it is! So you see, parents’ rights are being equally respected…

          This is fun!

          (Okay, maybe I’m just acting like a literalist jackass at this point, but if so at least I’m a fun-loving literalist jackass).

        2. Well, they have been successful in elevating the rights of some parents over others. For instance, if a parent says they do not want their transgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is the policy no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them.

          That is not elevating the rights of some parents over those of others.

          Is it not also true that if a parent says they do not want their cisgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is also the policy, no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them?

          Of course it is! So you see, parents’ rights are being equally respected…

          This is fun!

          (Okay, maybe I’m just acting like a literalist jackass at this point, but if so at least I’m a fun-loving literalist jackass).

        3. Well, they have been successful in elevating the rights of some parents over others. For instance, if a parent says they do not want their transgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is the policy no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them.

          That is not elevating the rights of some parents over those of others.

          Is it not also true that if a parent says they do not want their cisgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is also the policy, no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them?

          Of course it is! So you see, parents’ rights are being equally respected…

          This is fun!

          (Okay, maybe I’m just acting like a literalist jackass at this point, but if so at least I’m a fun-loving literalist jackass).

        4. Agian, you can complain and try to influence the elected officials, but those that have opinions and beliefs different from yours are just supposed to sit there and be quiet. Unfortunately, that how the ruling class wants us to be, but the Parent’s Rights groups are the start of the overthrowing of the ruling class.

          1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Not at all, Mom’s for Liberty have every right to speak publicly to their school board members regarding any policy issues they like. What they seek (and do not have a right to) is a special seat at the table or special treatment by that school board over other citizens they represent. They do not have special power to dictate curriculum, policies, or even library content just because they are parents. And, certainly, school boards should not be passing policies that promote the rights of some parents over the rights of other parents just because the former is more vocal about their demands.

          2. You say, “They do not have special power to dictate curriculum, policies, or even library content just because they are parents. ” Do you mean all parents or just Mom’s for Liberty? That means that some people have a voice in their children’s education and others don’t? You also say, “And, certainly, school boards should not be passing policies that promote the rights of some parents over the rights of other parents just because the former is more vocal about their demands.” That is very true, so you are saying that the very vocal LGBTQ+ minority parent shouldn’t be able to promote the rights of the few LGBTQ+ children in the school system to the school board or any other minority group? That doesn’t seem very fair or democratic.

          3. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            All parents, of course. Using Mom’s for Liberty as surrogate.

            “That is very true, so you are saying that the very vocal LGBTQ+ minority parent shouldn’t be able to promote the rights of the few LGBTQ+ children in the school system to the school board or any other minority group?”

            Again, all citizens have the right to promote anything they wish to any of their elected officials. If parents wish to promote the rights of Aryan children to the school board they certainly can. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another. “Rights” is the operative word here.

            “That doesn’t seem very fair or democratic.”

            It is.

          4. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            All parents, of course. Using Mom’s for Liberty as surrogate.

            “That is very true, so you are saying that the very vocal LGBTQ+ minority parent shouldn’t be able to promote the rights of the few LGBTQ+ children in the school system to the school board or any other minority group?”

            Again, all citizens have the right to promote anything they wish to any of their elected officials. If parents wish to promote the rights of Aryan children to the school board they certainly can. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another. “Rights” is the operative word here.

            “That doesn’t seem very fair or democratic.”

            It is.

          5. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another.

            Wow! I don’t have the time to even start down that road.

            I’ll just say that you and I both know you do not really believe what you wrote. Or at any rate, you believe it only when your rights and those of people with whom you agree are the ones not receiving preferential treatment.

          6. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another.

            Wow! I don’t have the time to even start down that road.

            I’ll just say that you and I both know you do not really believe what you wrote. Or at any rate, you believe it only when your rights and those of people with whom you agree are the ones not receiving preferential treatment.

          7. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another.

            Wow! I don’t have the time to even start down that road.

            I’ll just say that you and I both know you do not really believe what you wrote. Or at any rate, you believe it only when your rights and those of people with whom you agree are the ones not receiving preferential treatment.

          8. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another.

            Wow! I don’t have the time to even start down that road.

            I’ll just say that you and I both know you do not really believe what you wrote. Or at any rate, you believe it only when your rights and those of people with whom you agree are the ones not receiving preferential treatment.

          9. We agree then, our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another. Given that, we should repeal the policy allowing Trans children to access the restroom/locker room of their preferred gender because it places the rights of one group over the other.

          10. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Where is that right enumerated? My right to equal representation is clear.

          11. EVERYONE’S right to equal representation is clear, not just yours.

          12. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Exactly!

          13. My comment was that our elected representatives should not be passing policy that places the rights of any group over another.

            Wow! I don’t have the time to even start down that road.

            I’ll just say that you and I both know you do not really believe what you wrote. Or at any rate, you believe it only when your rights and those of people with whom you agree are the ones not receiving preferential treatment.

          14. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Sorry, this is what I believe. For instance your 2A rights should not be violated by my right to live. There are paths that respect both rights (as there are with parents and schools) and that should be what representatives should follow.

          15. Your right to live has nothing to do with the 2nd amendment. There is no 2nd amendment right to murder.

          16. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            I am not trying to make that argue (not now, in any case) but some would. In fact, some would try to say their right to live trumps 2A rights. They are wrong. See how that works…?

        5. Well, they have been successful in elevating the rights of some parents over others. For instance, if a parent says they do not want their transgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is the policy no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them.

          That is not elevating the rights of some parents over those of others.

          Is it not also true that if a parent says they do not want their cisgender child to be addressed by anything other than their birth sex pronoun, then that is also the policy, no matter what any teacher’s conscience tells them?

          Of course it is! So you see, parents’ rights are being equally respected…

          This is fun!

          (Okay, maybe I’m just acting like a literalist jackass at this point, but if so at least I’m a fun-loving literalist jackass).

          1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            I will give you points for originality on this one…

    4. Okay.

      “Progressives” try to infringe on my constitutional rights on a daily basis. I don’t bitch about it (much) – I work within the bounds of the law to make sure they aren’t successful.

      1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        Really? You don’t complain when anyone even suggests any new gun regulations…? C’mon now…

        1. You must have missed the 18th word in my comment…

          1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            No, I read it… maybe we have different opinions as the meaning of it though…

    5. What the so-called “parental rights” argument really is is an attempt by Conservatives to infringe on my rights to be represented by my duly elected local school board member.

      What the so-called “gun safety” argument really is is an attempt by Liberals to infringe on my rights to be represented by my duly elected legislative representatives…

      EDIT: By the way, I do not actually believe this, I just wanted to point out the ridiculousness of your statement by offering a direct analogy.

      On any given issue, an elected representative must ultimately take a choice, and said choice is likely to disappoint or even anger a lot of people who do not support that decision. Sometimes the decision is influenced by citizen “lobbying” and sometimes it is not.

      But in no case does this decision, or anyone’s lobbying efforts, infringe on anyone’s “rights to be represented by [their] duly elected” representative. They have representation, they just might not like the way they are being represented. And there are legal ways to try to change that.

      1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        “But in no case does this decision, or anyone’s lobbying efforts, infringe on anyone’s “rights to be represented by [their] duly elected” representative.”

        As I have stated repeatedly, I respect their right to lobby their representatives. I am simply saying that what they seek is to usurp my right to equal representation. They seek special access and consideration and in some cases have got it. As I also said luckily they have mostly failed. I don’t support their goals in this regard and neither should you, imo. I believe I have made my case clear.

      2. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        “But in no case does this decision, or anyone’s lobbying efforts, infringe on anyone’s “rights to be represented by [their] duly elected” representative.”

        As I have stated repeatedly, I respect their right to lobby their representatives. I am simply saying that what they seek is to usurp my right to equal representation. They seek special access and consideration and in some cases have got it. As I also said luckily they have mostly failed. I don’t support their goals in this regard and neither should you, imo. I believe I have made my case clear.

  4. Scott McPhail Avatar
    Scott McPhail

    “Leftists in the 1950s weren’t involved in unamerican activities. The House committee harassing them was. ”

    Shhhh, don’t tell him about the Rosenbergs . . . or Alger Hiss . . . or . . never mind

    https://www.historyisnowmagazine.com/blog/2018/12/16/soviet-spies-in-1950s-cold-war-america-the-strange-story-of-rudolf-abel

    1. Not Today Avatar

      Other unamerican activities? Hoover at FBI, CoIntelPro, Iran-Contra, Gulf War 2…

      Which did more damage?

    2. Not Today Avatar

      Other unamerican activities? Hoover at FBI, CoIntelPro, Iran-Contra, Gulf War 2…

      Which did more damage?

    3. Not Today Avatar

      Other unamerican activities? Hoover at FBI, CoIntelPro, Iran-Contra, Gulf War 2…

      Which did more damage?

    4. Matt Adams Avatar
      Matt Adams

      Don’t forget Klaus Fuchs

  5. Stephen Haner Avatar
    Stephen Haner

    Well, golly, if the book banners have posted a website with depictions of the nekkid Targaryen queen, you should share it! I agree this is mainly a silly exercise, given how easy it is for kids to get things they are told to stay away from. And how hard they try once they are told not to. I do think, however, parents certainly should have a say and the complaints about the sexually explicit materials aimed at the little kids are valid. You are sick person if you see no problem with that, Fitzgerald. Very, very different than complaints about the racy parts in 1984 when read by high school kids. I have no sympathy with those blue noses. I want EVERY kid reading that, even if the sex gets them to do it. 🙂

  6. Whose Rights?

    Code of Virginia, § 1-240.1. Rights of parents.

    A parent has a fundamental right to make decisions concerning the upbringing, education, and care of the parent’s child. (Emphasis added)

    2013, cc. 668, 678.

    https://law.lis.virginia.gov/vacode/title1/chapter2.1/section1-240.1/#:~:text=Rights%20of%20parents.,care%20of%20the%20parent’s%20child.

    Perhaps you should refrain from gracing us with your condescending and self-righteous diatribe on this subject until you have succeeded in talking the general assembly and the governor into repealing § 1-240.1 of the Code of Virginia.

    In closing, “Read a book.”

    1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      They do not, however, have the right to make decisions about my child’s education which is what they are attempting to do… yet again….

      1. In what way have they been trying to do that? By making their concerns known to their local school boards? By working to elect school board representatives who agree with them?

      2. In what way have they been trying to do that? By making their concerns known to their local school boards? By working to elect school board representatives who agree with them?

        1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
          Eric the half a troll

          From the Mom’s for Liberty website, a suggested resolution for local Virginia school boards:

          WHEREAS, the _____________ School Board believes that education must focus on academic subjects, and, without exception, should not include personal bias, personal political opinion, or indoctrination; and”

          What happens if I (a voter and perhaps not even a parent at this point) think it is important for a teacher to outline their own opinions and biases for their students? Why should these parents have a special say in that over me?

          “NOW, THEREFORE, BE IT RESOLVED that the _________________ School Board affirms our commitment to the fundamental rights of parents to direct the education of their children, including the right to play a central role in what it is their children are learning;”

          Why would they have a “central role” in curriculum when I (the represented voter but non-parent) do not? It is the responsibility of the school board, not parents, to establish curriculum and for good reason.

          1. Perfectly aligned with what I said in my comment. The resolutions you quoted are suggestions. School Boards are free to roundly reject them if they think adopting them would not be in the best interest of the schools.

            The parent’s rights people are not taking decisions regarding your child’s education. They are making their opinions known to school boards. If your local school board agrees with them and adopts their proposed policies, then it is the school board who is taking decisions regarding how your child is educated.

            As far as your questions: What happens if I (a voter and perhaps not even a parent at this point) think it is important for a teacher to outline their own opinions and biases for their students? Why should these parents have a special say in that over me?

            1) You should lobby your local school board to adopt policies reflective of what you think. They either will or they won’t.

            2) I do not think these parents should be given “special say”, but if they are successful in getting the school board to agree with them then the reason they have been granted “special say” will be ‘Democracy in action’.

            Yes, it absolutely should be school boards who set curriculum – with input, but not direction, from parents.

          2. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            “In what way have they been trying to do that?”

            Maybe you missed the seventh word in this question you wrote…

          3. Fair enough. I will revise my question:

            What is the problem with them trying to influence public policy?

            The answer is essentially the same.

          4. Fair enough. I will revise my question:

            What is the problem with them trying to influence public policy?

            The answer is essentially the same.

          5. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Nothing at all, tbh. It is what they are trying to do that I (and many voters, apparently) have trouble with for exactly the reasons I cited.

            For emphasis, I will repeat my comment:

            “They do not, however, have the right to make decisions about my child’s education which is what they are attempting to do… yet again….”

            I, honestly, had to alter this position a bit because my kids are now out of school. The central point is the same, however.

          6. “They do not, however, have the right to make decisions about my child’s education…”

            They cannot legally do that, so what’s the problem?

          7. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            If my local school board yields to their demands they suddenly would.

          8. If your local school board yields to their demands, then it is the school board that has made that decision, not Moms for Liberty.

          9. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            But Moms for Liberty would still be in a position to make decisions about all children’s education, not just their own. The fault would be that of the elected officials who delegated their authority to unelected members of their working board but the effect would be as I described and it is the power MfL seek.

          10. How are MfL making decisions? They are unelected members of a committee that will advise the elected members of the school board. Why do you think they will be making decisions. Please explain how they are making decisions. Are all advisory committees to be dissolved because a member of MfL might be on the committee?

          11. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            They request a commitment from the school board to be “central” to all education decisions. Sorry if you can’t comprehend how committing to always elevate one constituent over another is counter to the tenets of our representative democracy but it is. Most commissions are a broad cross-section of stakeholders and the community.

          12. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            They request a commitment from the school board to be “central” to all education decisions. Sorry if you can’t comprehend how committing to always elevate one constituent over another is counter to the tenets of our representative democracy but it is. Most commissions are a broad cross-section of stakeholders and the community.

          13. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            They request a commitment from the school board to be “central” to all education decisions. Sorry if you can’t comprehend how committing to always elevate one constituent over another is counter to the tenets of our representative democracy but it is. Most commissions are a broad cross-section of stakeholders and the community.

  7. f/k/a_tmtfairfax Avatar
    f/k/a_tmtfairfax

    Fairfax County Public Schools always made the sex education materials and lesson plans available to parents and allowed them to opt their kids out from the class. This worked well and gave parents a choice. It would make sense to make sure similar policies were followed in all public schools around the U.S.

    Like it or not, parents have the final say over their children until they are 18. If school personnel find that a child is experiencing neglect or abuse, they have a duty to report it. This generally causes government intervention that could include a court proceeding to limit or terminate parental rights.

    It seems quite reasonable for a child with sexual issues to confide in a teacher. At some point, however, the teacher or school has a duty to inform the parents about the situation. If the school has concerns about what is going on and/or about parental reaction (keeping in mind that kids often exaggerate), it should not make decisions to withhold information without first seeking legal intervention, where everyone’s interests (including the child’s, through the appointment of a guardian ad litem) is represented.

    This issue should be viewed similarly to the Red Flag process for addressing concerns about the competence of person to retain firearms. That law requires reporting to law enforcement and a court hearing.

    1. Matt Adams Avatar
      Matt Adams

      “Fairfax County Public Schools always made the sex education materials and lesson plans available to parents and allowed them to opt their kids out from the class. This worked well and gave parents a choice. It would make sense to make sure similar policies were followed in all public schools around the U.S.”

      This was a practice in PA, at least where I’m from.

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