Transgender Medical Care for Children – Do not Parents Have a Role?

by James C. Sherlock

Yesterday’s two-part column, I responded to the Virginian-Pilot’s assertion that transgender rights are being conflated by conservatives with critical race theory in schools. 

I agree that they are, and I find it appropriate.  

Child instruction in CRT and transgender affirming psychological and medical interventions for children without parent participation are being advocated by the same people.

Some of our progressive commenters professed shock — shock — that I would characterize VDOE’s Model Policies for the Treatment of Transgender Students in Public Elementary and Secondary Schools as child transgender advocacy.  

A motion for immediate relief from Model Policies filed in Lynchburg circuit court offered some of the legal objections. Amicus briefs have been filed on both sides. So fair enough to disagree with me.

I will relate two contrasting viewpoints, one expressed in The Washington Post and the other by the the American Academy of Pediatrics.

The first minimizes the role of parents; the other considers parents as partners.

That is the primary political bone of contention in both the CRT in K-12 public schools and transgender student model policies controversies. The rest is details. To argue otherwise is sophistry.  So pick a side.

The Washington Post

We’ll take a look first at progressive thought leaders to see if there is any evidence that Model Policies is part of a trend towards encouraging child transgender psychological and medical “support” without parent involvement.

I go to the progressive bible on this issue, The Washington Post, to see if it sheds a light or helps democracy die in darkness.

The Post published on April 22, 2021 a 3700 word article,FAQ: What you need to know about transgender children,” by Samantha Schmidt. Ms. Schmidt has reported on gender and family issues for the WP local desk, with a focus on the LGBTQ community.

If you can’t get through the WP’s paywall, the article has been reprinted.

Early on, Ms. Schmidt sets the terms of the discussion. “Conservative legislators” are bad.

“Many of these political debates are laden with misinformation and misunderstandings about what it means to be a transgender teenager today, advocates and medical experts say.” 

“Informed by medical guidelines, and interviews with doctors and experts, The Washington Post compiled answers to some of the most commonly asked questions about transgender young people.”

What would we do without advocates? We will assume these were not parents rights advocates. The term “parents” is used four times in 3,700 words. 

But Schmidt’s discussion of medical guidelines is interesting.

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) takes an affirmative stance on parents’ roles participating in transgender medical treatment. That forces Ms. Schmidt’s first mention of parents.  

It is also her last mention of AAP. It won’t be ours.

She instead parrots the Endocrine Society, which fits more closely her agenda. That organization has a position statement on “Transgender Advocacy at the State Level” that will satisfy those hoping to eliminate parents from the equation.   

Transgender medical care for children

S,o let’s look at her lengthy section on “Transgender medical care for children.”  

There is a 450-word subsection on “How does a young child transition.” No mention of parents. But we are informed that: 

“Medical guidelines generally do not recommend genital gender-affirming surgeries before a child reaches age 18.”

“Generally do not recommend.” Strong stuff  Nothing to see here for legislators.

A 450-word subsection titled “What are hormone treatments and when are they offered to transgender youth?” Parents? Characterized as idiots.  

“He argued that many of these children were not transgender to begin with and may have simply been brought to the clinics by their parents because they were “tomboys” or gender-nonconforming children. 

By the time a reader gets to the subsection “What legislation has advanced in the U.S. to restrict these medications?”, he pretty much knows what is coming.

There we find the last of the article’s four uses of the word “parents,” this time quoting Republican Governor Asa Hutchinson of Arkansas.

So, that is what parents are seeing from the left — an active campaign to sideline them in the certainly most important decision in any child’s life.

Which is exactly what they are seeing from CRT advocates. They are the same people, so conflation is appropriate.

The American Academy of Pediatrics

If you are looking for a medical organization that recognizes parental rights, consider the American Academy of Pediatrics.  

Pediatricians chose their specialty because they want to help kids. They have long known that parents and kids are a package.

Please go to the AAP website healthychildren.org and read their article on “Gender-Diverse & Transgender Children” by Dr. Jason Rafferty, M.D. dated June 7 of this year. Dr. Rafferty is an advocate on a national level through work with the American Academy of Pediatrics on issues including access to care for LGBTQ youth.

The article is, refreshingly, addressed to parents, not to government agencies at any level.

The AAP has taken a very balanced approach for a long time. Again from Dr. Rafferty:

“Some caution has been expressed that unquestioning acceptance per se may not best serve questioning youth or their families. Instead, psychological evidence suggests that the most benefit comes when family members and youth are supported and encouraged to engage in reflective perspective taking and validate their own and the other’s thoughts and feelings despite divergent views.”

The AAP philosophy is pretty much all parents ask.  

And demand. 


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46 responses to “Transgender Medical Care for Children – Do not Parents Have a Role?”

  1. DJRippert Avatar
    DJRippert

    “Give me just one generation of youth, and I’ll transform the whole world.”

    Vladamir Lenin.

    “The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.”

    Thomas Jefferson

    Am I the only person who thinks these two quotes might get to be pretty prophetic?

    Democrats are badly underestimating the majority of Americans who viscerally oppose the government’s attempt to take control of their children against their will.

    Hopefully this fall in Virginia will be a non-violent wake up call for Dems to see the error of their ways.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Aristophanes was right.

  2. I find it interesting that the Endocrine Society is a big proponent of life-altering treatments for youth. Transgenders represent a fantastic new growth market.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Where in the Journalist’s Oath does it say, “First, do no harm”?

  3. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
    Dick Hall-Sizemore

    You do the WP article a great disservice. Nowhere in that article is there any suggestion that parents should not be involved in decisions regarding their children who may identify with another gender. In fact, it could be regarded as written for parents who have questions about this whole issue.

    The AAP piece is excellect, but, if the WP had written that piece as its article, you would have been all over the paper for advocating that parents just acquiesce and accept their child’s choice.

    1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      What? Sherlock mischaracterized a WP article?! Say it isn’t so!

    2. James C. Sherlock Avatar
      James C. Sherlock

      The WP article dismisses parents by ignoring them.

      Read the AAP piece again, Dick. It comes nowhere “advocating parents just acquiesce”.

      1. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
        Dick Hall-Sizemore

        That is how you would have characterized if it had been a WP article.

    3. James C. Sherlock Avatar
      James C. Sherlock

      I agree with the AAP and disagree with the WP article. Simple as that. Doesn’t matter who published those two articles.

  4. Eric the half a troll Avatar
    Eric the half a troll

    “The first minimizes the role of parents; the other considers parents as partners.

    That is the primary political bone of contention in both the CRT in K-12 public schools and transgender student model policies controversies. The rest is details. To argue otherwise is sophistry. So pick a side.”

    So glad to have you on my side when the likes of Tanner Cross say that their “religious beliefs” dictate that they must ignore the wishes of parents when it comes to how he will address their transgender child. For once you seem to have picked the right side.

    1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
      James C. Sherlock

      Another endocrinologist heard from. First amendment protects Mr. Cross.

      1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        So when, exactly, do you want parents to be considered as partners? Only when they adopt your ideology, I suppose.

      2. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        Not according to SCOTUS. It protects his right to speak his mind on the subject, but his professed intent to address his students using names and pronouns he bases on birth gender violates the Title IX of EAA discrimination clause, which is identical to that of Title VII of CRA. Even Alito can’t twist himself that much

      3. Matt Adams Avatar
        Matt Adams

        Naw The half-wit troll more akin to a Proctologist.

    2. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Tanner isn’t just dismissing parents for his religious beliefs but the law too.

  5. DJRippert Avatar
    DJRippert

    It’s illegal to get a tattoo or body piercing in Virginia without your parents present until you are 18 years old. How could it possibly be OK to have any gender altering procedure or treatment without the explicit permission of the parents?

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      It’s medical. Really, DJ, come to the 20th century.

      1. DJRippert Avatar
        DJRippert

        I believe it is medic al in some cases and not in others.

        “She has since set up a support network for detransitioners and said she had been contacted by about 300 people, including some who had surgically transitioned. She admitted she could not verify all their stories.

        “Most of us are same-sex attracted,” she told BBC News. “Most of us identify as either lesbian or bisexual and a lot of us are autistic.”

        Charlie said many of these women felt at the time they had sought treatment, “they were not in a state that they were able to give consent [to medically transition] because they felt so unwell with eating disorders or depression”.

        https://www.bbc.com/news/health-50548473

      2. John Harvie Avatar
        John Harvie

        A medical abomination…

        1. Nancy Naive Avatar
          Nancy Naive

          No John, a child of God.

    2. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
      Dick Hall-Sizemore

      Is it legally possible for someone under 18 to have a gender altering procedure or treatment without the permission of the parents?

      1. DJRippert Avatar
        DJRippert

        Gender altering treatment (i.e. counseling with a school psychologist) – I don’t know. Can a parent be accused of committing a “risk of neglect” if they decide that the child should not see a psychologist?

        1. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
          Dick Hall-Sizemore

          I would define “treatment” as something beyond “counseling”; hormone treatments, for example.

          Unless the child were deemed suicidal, I don’t think a parent could legitimately be accused of committing a “risk of neglect” by refusing to allow a child to see a psychologist.

          1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
            James C. Sherlock

            Again, requires a lawyer to answer.

          2. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            You mean a judge. A legal opinion and a lawyer’s opinion are not the same thing.

            For example, “You cannot indict a sitting President” is a lawyer’s opinion not a legal one.

            A prosecutor who won’t charge for possession, a cop who won’t cite for less than 5 over, etc., etc,

        2. Nancy Naive Avatar
          Nancy Naive

          Ask Creigh Deeds. And by that, I mean he knows first hand the cost of not being able to access the mental health assets we need to have available for our children.

      2. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        Is it possible to do it without their knowledge? In which case, this is kinda moot. What parent wouldn’t notice his child missing for a few days and the presurgical biling on their insurance? If they could then they have no argument to exert rights.

        It goes waaay deeper than transgender. These parents don’t want little Mary and Jonny getting birth control or the facts either.

        900 children drown in pools in 2018. Let’s talk about parental rights.

        1. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
          Dick Hall-Sizemore

          A pediatrician whom I know very well tells me that it it would not be covered by insurance without the parent’s permission, or, at least, knowledge.

          1. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            So moot. Since it cannot possibly escape their knowledge, and involves expense beyond a pack of condoms, it cannot escape their permission.

            If a child could avoid the insurance and the expense, they could also petition for emancipation.

            Methinks the Captain is just playing with his balls. Queeg! Captain Queeg! That’s who I meant.

        2. James C. Sherlock Avatar
          James C. Sherlock

          Do you have kids? What would have been your position if we were talking about your own?

          1. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            How do you know I’m not?

      3. James C. Sherlock Avatar
        James C. Sherlock

        We need a lawyer to answer that.

  6. tmtfairfax Avatar
    tmtfairfax

    Parents are responsible for their children, absent a court order terminating the parent’s rights to the child, prior arrangements to put the child in another’s custody or an emergency. Inherent in this obligation is the power and the right to make fundamental decisions about care and treatment of the child. It’s been many years but I still remember studying this issue in my Family Law course. Courts went quite far in protecting this right, most especially with respect to parents who may not be the best.

    Of course, there is a time and place for state intervention. But there needs to be some showing of potential harm to the child. And state intervention is subject to judicial review.

    Do we really want some bureaucrat making decisions about body-altering surgery for a minor? Since the progressive argument is that children, even teens, lack the maturity to make decisions related to crimes (e.g., homicide) such that we no long subject minors to the death penalty or, generally, life without parole, why would we believe the same child has sufficient maturity to decide on surgery that mutilates parts of her/his body?

    Of course, if we had genuine reporters in the MSM, someone would start asking this question. But being perceived as woke is more important than competence most especially in journalism, formerly known as a profession.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Technically, what is the difference between a bureaucrat and a judge? Both are bound by the law.

      1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
        James C. Sherlock

        One has been educated in the law. One has not.

        1. Nancy Naive Avatar
          Nancy Naive

          But they’re still bureaucrats nonetheless. It just means they know it.
          https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.1086/666375

    2. DJRippert Avatar
      DJRippert

      Plenty of tales of detransitioning.

      https://www.bbc.com/news/health-50548473

      A child should not be able to physically transition even if the parents agree.

      A child should not be able to smoke legal marijuana or drink alcohol even of the parents agree.

  7. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    “In 2018, 900 children and teens under age 20 died from drowning and 7,200 were seen at a hospital emergency department for a drowning event, with 35% either hospitalized or transferred for further care.”

    Hell, parents should first teach their kids to swim.

    1. DJRippert Avatar
      DJRippert

      If the schools are looking for things to do … maybe drop the CRT training and teach teachers to give swimming lessons.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        If you’re looking for something to do, you could apply CRT to the proposed and existing laws to prove they are oppressing parents rights.

        Sauce for the goose…

        BTW, careful with that swimmer stuff. College swimming requirements were definitely Jim Crow era stuff.

        1. Baconator with extra cheese Avatar
          Baconator with extra cheese

          Yep. I knew a lady who could not graduate from Madison College due to the swimming requirement.

          1. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            ODU for the young lady I knew in the same boat, which was always a wonderment to me since she really did have her own Mae West.

  8. Baconator with extra cheese Avatar
    Baconator with extra cheese

    My prediction: This will one day explode when white medical professionals perform transgendered medical treatments on a Black or Muslim child without family approval. As some of the medications and procedures can’t be reversed and compromise the ability to reproduce it will be potentially considered an attempt to stop BIPOCs from reproducing. I guarantee one day this will be categorized as similar to the Tuskegee experiments.
    I have no ill will towards transgender people. I know they must be suffering. But performing irreversible procedures on children is at a minimum jumping up and down on very thin ice.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      My prediction?

      Republican opposition to on demand abortion will evaporate when science develops a prenatal LGBT genetic test.

  9. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    “If that’s all that troubles you, here take my veil, wrap it round your head, and hold your tongue.”

  10. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    Why would a child want to have a ex parental discussion concerning sex and their sexual persuasion with a doctor when there are so many willing and well trained priests?

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