The Robert E. Lee of Appomattox

by Kenneth G. EverettAdversity is the first path to truth.

Lord Byron, DON JUAN, Canto XII, Stanza 50

Few things in life reveal more clearly the true character of a man than his response to the circumstances of defeat and failure. The deepest impulses of the soul emerge when cherished hopes collapse and undertakings of much labor, sacrifice, and suffering end in ruin. All of this we see in Robert E. Lee at his surrender of the Army of Northern Virginia at Appomattox in April of 1865.

Given the severely reduced and depleted state of Lee’s Army of Northern Virginia by April 1865, and short of the useless sacrifice of this remnant of faithful veterans in a defiant last stand against Grant, Lee saw no option but that of surrendering the army. This exigency of circumstances, however, did not put Lee under the necessity of making peace.

On the eve of Lee’s meeting with Grant at the McLean house near Farmville, Virginia, Gen. E. Porter Alexander, Lee’s Chief of Artillery and one of his most gifted officers, passionately implored him to order the army to “scatter in the woods & bushes & either to rally upon Gen. Johnston in North Carolina, or to make their way, each man to his own state, with arms, & to support his governor,” rather than to surrender, arguing to Lee that “the men that have fought under you for four years have got the right to ask you to spare us the mortification of having you ask Grant for terms. . . .”

Alexander writes of himself in this heated appeal that, “Usually I stood very much in awe of Gen. Lee but now I was wrought up & words came to me as never before. And as I made my points they seemed to me unanswerable. . . . He [Lee] had listened very patiently until I finished & and then he said, ‘If I took your suggestion & ordered the army to disperse how many do you suppose would get away?’ I answered: ‘Two thirds of us, I think would get away.’

Lee’s ensuing response to this interplay of youthful impetuosity and seasoned wisdom, as recorded by Gen. Alexander, was as follows.

There are here [at Appomattox] only about 15,000 men with muskets. Suppose two thirds, say 10,000, got away. Divided among the states their numbers would be too insignificant to accomplish the least good. Yes! The surrender of this army is the end of the Confederacy. As for foreign help I’ve never believed we could gain our independence except by our own arms. If I ordered the men to go to Gen. Johnston, few would go. Their homes have been overrun by the enemy & their families need them badly. We have now simply to look the fact in the face that the Confederacy has failed.

And as Christian men, Gen. Alexander, you & I have no right to think for one moment of our personal feelings or affairs. We must consider only the effect which our action will have upon the country at large.

Suppose I should take your suggestion & order the army to disperse & make their way to their homes. The men would have no rations & they would be under no discipline. They are already demoralized by four years of war. They would have to plunder & rob to procure subsistence. The country would be full of lawless bands in every part, & a state of society would ensue from which it would take the country years to recover. Then the enemy’s cavalry would pursue in the hopes of catching the principal officers, & wherever they went there would be fresh rapine and destruction.

And as for myself, while you young men might afford to go on bushwhacking, the only proper & dignified course for me would be to surrender myself & and take the consequences of my actions.

But it is still early in the spring, & if the men can be quietly & quickly returned to their homes there is time to plant crops & begin to repair the ravages of war.
That is what I must now try to bring about. I expect to meet Gen. Grant at ten this morning in rear of the army & surrender this army to him.

Alexander was abashed at this response from Lee, writing that “. . . I had never half known before what a big heart & brain our general had. I was so ashamed of having proposed to him such a foolish and wild cat scheme as my suggestion had been that I felt like begging him to forget that he ever heard it. . . . It seemed now an inestimable privilege to serve under him to the very last moment, & that no scene in the whole life of the Army of Northern Virginia would be more honorable than the one which was now to close its record.”

In Lee’s statement to Alexander, we find united all the essential elements of his character and abilities: the engineer’s penchant for realism and practicality, penetration of insight, clarity of thought, accuracy of judgment, personal self-denial, and an overriding consideration for the welfare of others. At Appomattox Lee refused a continuance of war, although he knew that the sentiments of the warring parties remained largely at odds on the issues that had spawned the armed conflict and was undoubtedly aware that the ravages of that conflict had inflamed feelings of yet greater bitterness and acrimony. Notwithstanding, these daunting circumstances, however, we see at Appomattox the emergence of Lee as peacemaker, and in his words to Alexander the seeds of commitment to apply the influence and example of his post-war life to the healing and reconciliation of the exhausted and war-torn nation.

The relatively brief surrender formalities at the McLean house on April 9, 1865, were conducted with dignity and respect. Lee reported to Grant with truthful candor the numbers and condition of his army, as far as he knew them. And in everlasting testament to the fundamental goodness of Grant, he made every effort to spare Lee humiliation or aggravation of the pain he knew he must feel at being compelled to surrender an army that had fought so long and so valiantly.

To this end, Grant’s terms were that Lee’s men be paroled to go to their homes (not marched off to prison), that Confederate officers be allowed to keep their side arms, and that those of Lee’s men who owned their own horses be permitted to keep them, adding the unsolicited offer to send over to Lee’s famished army 25,000 rations from Union stocks, a gesture that drew Lee’s warm appreciation.

As Lee departed the conference and walked out onto the McLean house porch, the Union officers standing there respectfully saluted him, with Lee returning their salutes as he called for his horse for the tearful ride through his men to tell them they had been surrendered and were now free to go home after four long years of arduous struggle. The whole tone and tenor of the Appomattox surrender, thanks to both Grant and Lee, was a “Great American Moment,” of a sort too seldom repeated on the world stage in any age. Grant had been generous and kind, and Lee had chosen peace over a protracted guerilla war that could have rendered the yet young American republic a failed experiment.

Today, as was the nation in April of 1865, Washington and Lee University has been torn for several years by strife between two factions of the community: one desiring to retain the historical traditions and values of the school as well as the reputations of its namesakes, from whose influence and example much of that tradition was derived; and the other, seeing those traditions and values as obstructive to the furtherance of the greater diversity and inclusion required in modern America, where even yet the scars of slavery still linger in some corners of society. This disparity of views will not be soon ended, but the current war of words and actions must be, and moves toward compromise and mutual accommodation made, as in the recently offered, eminently workable and practical proposals by TGR’s Neely Young (in advising of ways to increase diversity of political and cultural views on campus) and Rex Woodridge (in proposing a new, modern back-campus general meeting venue and university museum site, inoffensive to all, advantageous to all, and allowing for the Chapel to retain the name, Lee Chapel, and the recumbent Lee statue not to be walled off from the Chapel sanctuary).

Lee, who conceived and erected the Chapel during his presidency of Washington College, never intended, nor ever would have allowed, it to become — as is alleged by some to be the case today — a Confederate memorial, a symbol of the Lost Cause, a rallying point for latter day, die-hard Confederates, or for modern day racists. It was meant to be a place of worship and a meeting venue suitable for other campus functions. As much as the equestrian statues of Lee at Gettysburg and on Richmond’s Monument Avenue (the latter recently removed) symbolize Lee the Warrior, Lee Chapel symbolizes Lee the Peacemaker and Reconciler, the Lee of Appomattox, the man who assumed the presidency of Washington College in 1865 and led it to renown and prosperity in the ensuing five years of his tenure.

We earnestly call upon the Washington and Lee Administration and Board of Trustees to accept our overtures of compromise, that once again Lee Chapel might face Washington Hall across the Colonnade’s front lawn in peace and in a symmetry of names shared with that of their juxtaposition in the name of the university itself, and that neither the proud statue of “Ole George” atop Washington Hall nor that of Lee in the Chapel be disgracefully shrouded from view. In the spirit of Appomattox, Washington and Lee forever!

Respectfully,

Kenneth G. Everett
Washington & Lee, Class of 1964

This column has been republished with permission from The Generals Redoubt.


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36 responses to “The Robert E. Lee of Appomattox”

  1. If you like Lee so much, why not follow his example and surrender

    1. James McCarthy Avatar
      James McCarthy

      Keep in mind, the article’s praise for such men. Womenfolk are not included.

      1. walter smith Avatar
        walter smith

        Competing with Larry for inanity here…

        1. James McCarthy Avatar
          James McCarthy

          Nope. You are apparently surprised that some folks see things made invisible by your myopia.

          1. walter smith Avatar
            walter smith

            So tell me what was missing from the “wimmins” movement at the scene at Appomattox? Were there some trannys in the Union Army? According to you and Larry, history doesn’t happen if blacks and women are not included? So African history is lying when there are no whites involved in the battles? Seriously, you are usually smarter than Larry level stupidity.

    2. James Wyatt Whitehead Avatar
      James Wyatt Whitehead

      Appomattox was half time!

  2. Kathleen Smith Avatar
    Kathleen Smith

    What we often forget is that the Lee was only a man, capable of thinking of others, leading his people, and having an opinion. Those of the generation after Lee sought to memorialize confederate soldiers to put a divide between Blacks and Whites. Lee is blamed for their mistake, not his.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Here… “he’s just a man” too.
      https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9MFsNSPcESg&noapp=1

  3. Kathleen Smith Avatar
    Kathleen Smith

    What we often forget is that the Lee was only a man, capable of thinking of others, leading his people, and having an opinion. Those of the generation after Lee sought to memorialize confederate soldiers to put a divide between Blacks and Whites. Lee is blamed for their mistake, not his.

  4. William O'Keefe Avatar
    William O’Keefe

    This a very thoughtful article by a thoughtful individual. Our system was built to find common ground and minimize the tyranny of the majority. Contrary to Steve Haner’s ill informed comments. Lee did not join the confederacy because he wanted to perpetuate slavery. A open minded reading of history shows that he resigned his commission with a heavy heart and stated that he could not raise his sword against his country. In 1860, many saw their states as being more independent than we do today. Lee’s life shows his character and values. They may be out of step today but he lived then; not now.

    1. Kathleen Smith Avatar
      Kathleen Smith

      Well said. The time has to be included in the context. It doesn’t make it right or wrong. It makes it history. And it is history we learn from.

    2. Stephen Haner Avatar
      Stephen Haner

      Of course he fought for slavery. There was no other reason for the secession movement at all. And they were not coy about it. I’ll be happy to match my shelf of books fully read on the period to yours if you want to call me “ill informed.” Was it Jefferson who said he trembled for his country when he thought about how God was just? The wages of sin were indeed death.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        Lemme know when the pig sings “Suwanee”.

      2. William O'Keefe Avatar
        William O’Keefe

        The secession movement and his motivations and beliefs are two different things. I don’t know how many or what books you have read about Lee but if you are not ill informed you are very biased. Let’s just agree to disagree because I see no hope of reaching common ground on Lee.

        1. Stephen Haner Avatar
          Stephen Haner

          Great general. Important figure in reconciliation after the war, and tragic that he died too soon (like Lincoln). But he was a major slaveholder, and not a benevolent one, and knew exactly what he was doing when he picked a side. Yeah, I read both of Freeman’s multi-volume sets, but didn’t stop there.

          1. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            Careful, you earn an SJW label, which on some sites stands for Single Jewish Woman, but not around here.

          2. Stephen Haner Avatar
            Stephen Haner

            I calls them as I sees them. What I do not understand is why it is so crucial to so many to defend Dead White Confederates rather than just to accept the history as it is. I don’t think W&L should tear down the Lee Chapel or expunge his name, not at all, but this worship is a symptom of something deep.

          3. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            The guy was a tour de force at W&L. He earned that much… just.

          4. James McCarthy Avatar
            James McCarthy

            It is the persistent, stubborn attachment to such symbols that perpetuates the emotional aspect of history. If all the names were erased and marble converted to dust, such memory can remain in the history books.

          5. William O'Keefe Avatar
            William O’Keefe

            Either did I. I wouldn’t call him a “major” slave holder. As I recall, he inherited most of what he had. He should have freed all since he didn’t agree with slavery but rationalized by saying he didn’t know what would become of them. You are being too judgmental in claiming that “he knew exactly what he was doing when he picked a side.” He was driven by a misplaced allegiance to Virginia which undoubtedly influenced his decision making. If you can’t put yourself in his shoes in 1860, you should be a little more tolerant.

        2. James McCarthy Avatar
          James McCarthy

          Secession was a movement? Like a waltz?

  5. LarrytheG Avatar
    LarrytheG

    I’m always struck by these discussions in that they almost never address how black folks are involved. It’s almost like they don’t exist, don’t have a view about Lee (and others) nor their memorials, etc?

    It’s like a white-centric thing where white folks argue about it.

    1. walter smith Avatar
      walter smith

      Seriously, Larry. You are such a waste of time. Black folks weren’t there at the surrender. It was a Grant and Lee thing. Black “folks” didn’t attend W&L. In fact, VUU was started in 1865.
      English history…pretty much devoid of blacks.
      Do you try to bring up inanity, or does it just come naturally?

      1. LarrytheG Avatar
        LarrytheG

        So nothing about black folks, right? All about white folks?

        1. walter smith Avatar
          walter smith

          In the fictional universe of Larrytopia (it has to be fictional because Larrytopia could not exist with its myopic leader) there is only black history. There is no white history or anything other than from a black perspective. Western Civ doesn’t exist. The whole world is tribal conflicts – the same tribal conflicts who sold the defeated into slavery…if they didn’t kill them first…
          At the surrender at Appomattox, in the real universe, as it existed then, that is what happened. There were some free blacks. There were many blacks in slavery. The ones in slavery didn’t have a lot of chances to be there at Appomattox. The blacks in Africa were…we don’t really know a lot. How is the continent of Africa doing today? Perfection? How are blacks doing here in America Larry? After all those years of racist Democratic help? Maybe people like you are the problem…

          1. LarrytheG Avatar
            LarrytheG

            Ah. One of those “thoughtful” voices JAB has given a “platform” to!

            Say again what Africa has to do with Slavery and the Confederacy?

            Walter here epitomizes the “big tent” that JAB talks about.

          2. walter smith Avatar
            walter smith

            OK. Larry – write the black part missing at the scene of the surrender in Appomattox. I won’t wait. It isn’t written because there really wasn’t a black presence at that farmhouse, but you go ahead, tell us all that we are missing from the description of the scene…

  6. beachguy Avatar

    Secession, revolt, and insurrection are three entirely different things.

  7. Stephen Haner Avatar
    Stephen Haner

    Riiiight…All is forgiven for waging war against a Constitution he swore to defend, in order to maintain an immoral system of slavery, leaving millions dead or wounded or impoverished. Sorry. This continued obsession here at defenseofthewhiteman.com is becoming too much (like the silly piece yesterday about the three counties being such utopias for their black residents). The Germans who surrendered to reality in May of 1945, also something noble about them because they recognized futility when it stared them in the face? Do we thus absolve them of the sins of the Nazi regime? Get a life.

    I can’t remember reading it before, so I grabbed a used copy when I saw it and just finished C. Vann Woodward’s “The Strange Career of Jim Crow.” Bits and pieces may start to show up in response to some of the mythological thinking and imaginary history that is becoming too common on this blog.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Are we talking about the Rebellion of 1861 and R.E. Lee, or just January 6th in general?

      BTW, glad to see you didn’t fall in. God awful spectacular, ain’t it?

  8. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    Wouldn’t be Sunday without our “Great Moments and Men in Slavery and White Supremacy” history article.

    There’s only one thing you need to know about his military skills. The first and only time he left friendly terrain and fought in an area without “local knowledge”, he got his head handed to him. Logistics, Logistics, Logistics.

    1. Kathleen Smith Avatar
      Kathleen Smith

      The civil war was fought as two sides had a difference of opinion. One side conceded, the other didn’t. The war ended and so did slavery. What came after was outright wrong. Discrimination and racism. We have to accept that in our history too. It happened. Learn and move on. Maybe that is what is wrong with Putin, he can’t move on.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        Oh sweet. A difference of opinion. One opinion was breeding, raping, and selling people is fun and profit. The other not so much.

  9. James Wyatt Whitehead Avatar
    James Wyatt Whitehead

    I always considered Lee’s final act as commander as the document that makes the terms of Appomattox possible.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w0j_NCjSAbQ

  10. david Beauregard Avatar
    david Beauregard

    This is a thoughtful piece. One worth reading and thinking about. For me, the most telling action of Grant and Lee was the recognition of the need to respect the vanquished army and its’ leadership and to give the winning Army and its General the courtesy they deserved and the trust they then honored. In terms of “our time”, we have failed to learn the lesson of Appomattox. We have allowed crude dialogue to paint a sordid picture of a slavery riddled country when in fact our country and ALL those who live here has been blessed with unrivaled prosperity and extraordinary generosity. All in the name of a shared prosperity and peace. In terms of race relations, we have allowed politicians and large segments of self-interest to drive the racial divide that remains with us. Even a Black president was unable to narrow the gap of racial animus that exists in some quarters. A festering wound that some would prefer remain open, remains open. This seems to be the choice that Lee was faced with. Lee not only chose the most pragmatic approach that day in Appomattox; he also chose a path for peace and prosperity as he envisioned those conditions for the country. Grant and Lee had seen enough suffering, they had lost enough men, they had heard enough cannon fire. It is sad to think we remain the belligerents, in the same social/cultural ranks as was at Appomattox. For me, if asked, I would suggest that when rereading this piece each of us examine our motives, think in broader terms and try understanding the current state of political discourse in our country. Do not anger at contrary opinions, or some of the seemingly inane cultural experiments to which we are exposed, mostly by media practicing political and social sabotage. Then, close your computer and consider the possibility you have made a small but positive contribution to the pubic dialogue, today. Then, try again tomorrow.

  11. Ruckweiler Avatar
    Ruckweiler

    The lefties want to throw our history down Orwell’s “memory hole” which will only be the start of their destruction of America memory. Is there ANYTHING they don’t screw up?

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