By Peter GaluszkaAuthor’s note:This is a piece I wrote this week at Richmond’s Style Weekly. As a journalist, I have been dealing for years around the fringes of fighting in Afghanistan which historians have always warned is a good place to stay away from. It has consumed foreign intruders including the British, the Russians and now, the Americans.When I was a correspondent in the Soviet Union in the 1980s, I spoke with many young Russians who had fought there for reasons that still seem unclear. Some lost limbs or their lives or ended up with serious drug and alcohol problems. In early 1989, I was flown by the Soviet Air Force with a group of foreign journalists to the city of Termez in Uzbekistan just across the Amu Darya River from Afghanistan. We were there to watch armored columns withdraw in a new policy brought by President Mikhail S. Gorbachev. At the time, I could never have believed that 24 years later, I would be writing about American troops killed there. Americans now are fighting some of the very same Afghanis that we were supporting during the Soviet war.Here’s the Style story:
After he arrived in Afghanistan last December, Army Specialist Kyle P. Stoeckli reassured his parents back in the Foxfire subdivision of Chesterfield County not to worry. U.S. troops had been fighting in that country for 12 years and “it wasn’t as dangerous as people think,” his father, Bruno, remembers him saying.
On June 1 came the tragic news that Kyle, a cheerful, brown-eyed 21-year-old, was dead. Details are still scarce, but he had been walking near a Stryker armored vehicle near the town of Maiwand when he was hit by a blast from an improvised explosive device (IED).
Such bombs are responsible for many of the 2,245 Americans who have died in Afghanistan and the 4,486 killed in Iraq. Of them some 286 are Virginians. About two dozen are from the Richmond area and numbers steadily grow.
For Bruno Stoeckli, an engineer who emigrated from Switzerland, the death of his son is especially unsettling coming so many years after the Sept. 11, 2001 terrorist attacks that prompted U.S. incursions in Iraq and Afghanistan. Mastermind Osama Bin Laden was slain three years ago in Pakistan. U.S. troops are mostly withdrawn from Iraq and are expected to draw down from Afghanistan at the end of this year.
Kyle, in fact, was packing up for his return. “He was due to be on his way out about five weeks after this happened,” his father says. He was supposed to be back in Texas until the end of the year. He was thinking about going to flight school after that, says his father as he sits in his family room where sits a miniature rocking chair that had been used by Kyle when he was a toddler
The gregarious 2010 Cosby High School graduate and lacrosse fan wasn’t exactly a super patriot, his father says. He was only nine years old when the World Trade Center towers in New York were destroyed. “He talked a lot about it when he got home from school that day, “says his father.
Years later, Kyle wasn’t sure what to do after Cosby, so he joined the Army. “My wife and I were flabbergasted,” Stoeckli says. “We’re not military people. But we supported it because he wanted to be independent.”
After training at Ft. Benning in Georgia, Kyle was assigned to the 1st Stryker Combat Brigade at Ft. Bliss near El Paso where the dry, rugged mountain terrain was an ideal preparation for Afghanistan for his armored unit. Kyle volunteered “for the less-than-glamorous work details” and had “an extremely optimistic personality that spreads through the platoon like a virus,” 1st Lt. Austin Caroe wrote in a newsletter.
As in Kyle’s case, casualties tend to come through attrition over long periods. Causes include firefights, truck accidents, helicopter crashes, and, quite often, IEDs. Private First Class Leslie D. Jackson, an 18-year-old graduate of Richmond’s George D. Wythe High School, was killed when her vehicle was hit by an IED in Iraq on May 20, 2004. IEDs also killed Staff Sgt. Jason Arnette, 24, of Amelia in Iraq in 2007 and of Staff Sgt. Jaimie C. Newman, a 27-year-old Richmonder, in Afghanistan.
Honoring so many deaths initially caught Virginia officials off guard. One who came through was Gov. Robert F. McDonnell. When he was attorney general in 2006, McDonnell started collecting pictures of American war dead from Iraq and Afghanistan in 2006 in his office. As combat plodded on, pictures stacked up. The exhibit now totals 286 and has been moved temporarily to a basement room at the Virginia War Memorial. A permanent exhibit is planned on the site, says Memorial spokesman Jeb Hockman. In the works is an $18.6 million expansion project that will include a four-story parking deck and offices for the Virginia Department of Veterans Services. Hockman says more names will be added each Memorial Day.
That’s cold comfort, however, to Kyle Stoeckli’s father who is still shaken over how the Army handled Kyle’s death. His remains arrived for processing at Dover Air Force Base in Delaware on Monday June 3, but the family was kept in the dark about when to plan a funeral. After no answers for nearly a week, “we finally we learned the following Sunday that his remains would be released the next day,” says Stoeckli.
The June 13 funeral at St. Gabriel’s Catholic Church on Winterpock Road was packed. Midway through it, a severe thunderstorm eerily knocked out power. Candles were quickly lit. Stoeckli says the Army “did they best they could and our community was absolutely great and supportive.” But it won’t bring back Kyle, says his father who adds, “I can’t understand why the fighting has gone on so long.”
(Note: The family asks that donations be made to the Kyle P. Stoeckli Memorial Scholarship Fund at www.cpefound.org)
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