Retail Politics and the Social Compact

by Richard Tangard

While I waited in the grocery store checkout line, a scowling, angry-looking man walked in through the automatic door. As I placed my items on the conveyor, his purposeful stride took him into a nearby aisle. Moments later he emerged carrying two cases of beer, snarled at several employees, and stomped out without paying.

None of them said anything or lifted a finger to stop him, and I can’t really blame them. He telegraphed that interference would be met with violence. I don’t think anyone called the police, although that may have happened later.

Not long ago, a social compact was generally accepted in this country. Stealing is wrong. Initiating or threatening violence is wrong. Follow the rules and you will be treated fairly. Those who break the rules will be sought out, prosecuted and tried. If convicted, especially in the case of a repeat offender, the perpetrator will be removed from society both to teach a lesson and for public safety.

The social compact had value because nearly everyone followed it. That near-universality seems to be gone. I suspect it will take decades to re-establish.

Richard Tangard is an avid cyclist, three-time Ironman triathlete, and a mostly retired CPA. He says his wayward youth was spent in Connecticut but he has lived in the Richmond area for 28 years.


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57 responses to “Retail Politics and the Social Compact”

  1. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    “None of them said anything or lifted a finger to stop him, and I can’t really blame them.”

    “None of us…”. If you are going to complain about the demise of the social compact, be sure to include yourself. It provides license.

    Then, consider it could’ve been the owner’s ill tempered son-in-law upset over the banning of books from school libraries.

    1. VaPragamtist Avatar
      VaPragamtist

      The author also leaves out important details: what did he say when he “snarled” at the employees? Was it something like “I paid for these earlier and didn’t pick them up, here’s my receipt”? Happens all the time, especially with employees who buy a few items and their lunch during their break/don’t want their items to get warm.

      What were the reactions of the employees?

      Why is the author assuming the worst?

      A social contract is premised on the idea of trust in others. The author clearly has none and assumes the worst based on appearances (“angry-looking man”), and his own interpretation of actions (“stomped out”). He then comes to his own conclusions without the benefit of context.

      This mindset does more harm to the social contract than an individual who commits an offense.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        I suppose that such cynical pessimism is the wellspring of QAnon subscribers.

        1. WayneS Avatar

          And now, you are assuming the worst about someone…

        2. WayneS Avatar

          And now, you are assuming the worst about someone…

          😉

          1. Nathan Avatar

            Assuming the worst? Oh no. Liberals would never do that.

            https://twitter.com/ClayTravis/status/1661386847530909698

          2. WayneS Avatar

            It also gives the lie to any claim that “progressives” are not authoritarian.

          3. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            Worst?! With cynical pessimism all things are possible. 😉

          4. WayneS Avatar

            And there is still no word on LarrytheG?

          5. Lefty665 Avatar
            Lefty665

            Think I recall he got a “vacation” along with a couple of other folks. Maybe he decided to stay at the “beach”.

          6. WayneS Avatar

            Wow. I had not heard that.

          7. Lefty665 Avatar
            Lefty665

            I could be wrong, I often am. Nancy may recall more.,,

          8. CJBova Avatar

            He didn’t come back after 3 day suspension.

          9. WayneS Avatar

            Thank you for the explanation.

          10. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            That is understandable that he would be reticent to return… shame he was treated so poorly…

          11. CJBova Avatar

            It was his choice to abuse the commenting rules as often as he did. He was treated the same as every other commenter.

          12. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            BR loss… I certainly did not see abuse in his comments… no worse than many others here…

          13. CJBova Avatar

            Among other issues, calling key figures in BR racists and white supremacists without cause is not acceptable.

          14. Monica Wright Avatar
            Monica Wright

            Something many BR flaggers routinely impute (and admins divine) but is rarely, if ever, alleged.

          15. Lefty665 Avatar
            Lefty665

            Ok, you’ve now qualified for a Jim McCarthy’s Silly Walks Award. Congrats:)

          16. DJRippert Avatar
            DJRippert

            I sent Larry an email. He responded that he is fine. I expect to see him back here soon.

          17. James McCarthy Avatar
            James McCarthy

            Gospel!

      2. Shambolina Mili Avatar
        Shambolina Mili

        Yeah, right- makes perfect sense..

      3. VaNavVet Avatar
        VaNavVet

        Where does “retail politics” enter into this? Was there some brand of politics at play in this grocery store?

    2. James Wyatt Whitehead Avatar
      James Wyatt Whitehead

      BOGO free has been altered, now means TOGO free.

    3. WayneS Avatar

      Good point on the “us” vs “them”.

      If I had been in his position I might have said something like: “Wow. What’s up with that?” to my cashier in hopes of finding out what was going on.

      She/he could then have responded: “That’s the owner’s ill tempered son-in-law. He is upset over the banning of books from school libraries”; or perhaps, “that guy comes in here every day and steals two cases of beer – my manager said don’t try to stop him”.

      Whatever the answer, it would probably have helped me avoid making assumptions.

      1. Lefty665 Avatar
        Lefty665

        Giving it away may be the only way they can move Bud Light these days. Perhaps he was grumpy because he had to make a second stop to pick up his new swimsuit from Target.

    1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      Good lord! Pursuing the lucrative bachelorette party market… smh…

        1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
          Eric the half a troll

          As he gets fingerprinted… “…totally worth it…”

  2. Nathan Avatar

    Not the best reporting for sure. One would think a three-time Ironman triathlete could at least muster the courage to ask his cashier if the guy did indeed walk out with two cases of beer without paying for them.

    Or maybe the guy getting the beer actually bought 4 cases of beer before Mr. Tangard arrived and was upset that the staff refused to help him carry them to his car. He carried two out after paying, and came back for the other two.

    Shoplifting, and the casual treatment of it, is a real problem in some areas. Without more information, however, I am not convinced this was actually an example of it.

    Kohl’s, Foot Locker, Target, Walmart say brazen retail theft worsening

    Retail industry lost nearly $100B in 2022 because of shrink

    https://www.foxbusiness.com/lifestyle/kohls-foot-locker-target-walmart-brazen-retail-theft-worsening

  3. Nathan Avatar

    Not the best reporting for sure. One would think a three-time Ironman triathlete could at least muster the courage to ask his cashier if the guy did indeed walk out with two cases of beer without paying for them.

    Or maybe the guy getting the beer actually bought 4 cases of beer before Mr. Tangard arrived and was upset that the staff refused to help him carry them to his car. He carried two out after paying, and came back for the other two.

    Shoplifting, and the casual treatment of it, is a real problem in some areas. Without more information, however, I am not convinced this was actually an example of it.

    Kohl’s, Foot Locker, Target, Walmart say brazen retail theft worsening

    Retail industry lost nearly $100B in 2022 because of shrink

    https://www.foxbusiness.com/lifestyle/kohls-foot-locker-target-walmart-brazen-retail-theft-worsening

  4. Nathan Avatar

    Not the best reporting for sure. One would think a three-time Ironman triathlete could at least muster the courage to ask his cashier if the guy did indeed walk out with two cases of beer without paying for them.

    Or maybe the guy getting the beer actually bought 4 cases of beer before Mr. Tangard arrived and was upset that the staff refused to help him carry them to his car. He carried two out after paying, and came back for the other two.

    Shoplifting, and the casual treatment of it, is a real problem in some areas. Without more information, however, I am not convinced this was actually an example of it.

    Kohl’s, Foot Locker, Target, Walmart say brazen retail theft worsening

    Retail industry lost nearly $100B in 2022 because of shrink

    https://www.foxbusiness.com/lifestyle/kohls-foot-locker-target-walmart-brazen-retail-theft-worsening

  5. Nathan Avatar

    Not the best reporting for sure. One would think a three-time Ironman triathlete could at least muster the courage to ask his cashier if the guy did indeed walk out with two cases of beer without paying for them.

    Or maybe the guy getting the beer actually bought 4 cases of beer before Mr. Tangard arrived and was upset that the staff refused to help him carry them to his car. He carried two out after paying, and came back for the other two.

    Shoplifting, and the casual treatment of it, is a real problem in some areas. Without more information, however, I am not convinced this was actually an example of it.

    Kohl’s, Foot Locker, Target, Walmart say brazen retail theft worsening

    Retail industry lost nearly $100B in 2022 because of shrink

    https://www.foxbusiness.com/lifestyle/kohls-foot-locker-target-walmart-brazen-retail-theft-worsening

  6. Eric the half a troll Avatar
    Eric the half a troll

    “…and I can’t really blame them…”

    Part of the price for our “freedom”…?

    1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
      James C. Sherlock

      I think you’re actually serious. Amazing.

      1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        Clearly you don’t get my comment…

  7. Just remember we ALL pay more for those who think the law or our social compact doesn’t apply to them……. bummer there wasn’t a former Marine standing in line…..

    1. James McCarthy Avatar
      James McCarthy

      A Marine at Mar a Lago might have helped.

      1. Lefty665 Avatar
        Lefty665

        A squad of Marine’s each in Biden’s garage, D.C. office, and UofD toxic waste dump would also have “helped”.

    2. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Are you really willing to suffer bodily injury, or even death, to save a few pennies on your next merchandise purchase?

      Forget I asked. I see by your next line, you’d rather a former Marine take that risk.

  8. Nathan Avatar

    Not the best reporting for sure. One would think a three-time Ironman triathlete could at least muster the courage to ask his cashier if the guy did indeed walk out with two cases of beer without paying for them.

    Or maybe the guy getting the beer actually bought 4 cases of beer before Mr. Tangard arrived, and was upset that the staff refused to help him carry them to his car. He carried two out after paying, and then came back for the other two.

    Shoplifting, and the casual treatment of it, is a real problem in some areas. Without more information, however, I am not convinced this was actually an example of it.

    Kohl’s, Foot Locker, Target, Walmart say brazen retail theft worsening

    Retail industry lost nearly $100B in 2022 because of shrink

    https://www.foxbusiness.com/lifestyle/kohls-foot-locker-target-walmart-brazen-retail-theft-worsening

    1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
      James C. Sherlock

      “Shrink” is what they call it in order not to offend the misunderstood thief class.

      1. Nathan Avatar

        Retail stores are also “shrinking” in areas of high crime. It’s no longer profitable to do business in some places.

        My son lives in San Francisco. It’s absolutely out of control there.

        Soap shampoo and many other such items are all locked securly behind glass to prevent pilferage. He finds it easier to buy these things online and have them shipped, rather than to find an attendant to unlock the case to get them in a store.

  9. Turbocohen Avatar
    Turbocohen

    Dare you to describe the thief. Gender, color, ethnicity, height, body shape.. you know.. things that are politically too taboo to describe in this woke era out of fear of being isolated.

    1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      “Dare you to describe the thief. Gender…”

      “… a scowling, angry-looking man…”

      Just a tiny bit of effort would be very helpful…

      1. WayneS Avatar

        Of course “man” is just another unsupported assumption by the observer. Did he/she/they say he/she/they identifies as a man?

        😉

  10. James C. Sherlock Avatar
    James C. Sherlock

    There was a story I was pursuing about shoplifting in Virginia Beach. Went into a store that I decline to name. Asked the clerk if he had ever been on duty during a robbery. He said no.

    Robbery implies force or threat of force. I used the term because the groups of young men that steal from that particular store and the one across the street are masked (Covid has a lot to answer for) and their heads are covered. Menace is implied much like by the man in this story.

    I clarified that I meant when such “customers” stole merchandise. He shrugged and replied “every day”.

    “Every day”.

    The left, as they have here, can try to make light of it. But it is a sign of the shredding of the social contract.

    The store in question does not sell a single item that anyone needs. Just things they want.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Don’t know why you bother to whisper what you’re dying to scream out.

      1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
        James C. Sherlock

        I’ll repeat.

        “The store in question does not sell a single item anyone needs. Just things they want.”

        People stealing without consequence is a shredding of the social contract by policy.

        Do you or don’t you agree?

        1. Nancy Naive Avatar
          Nancy Naive

          Didn’t realize you were the arbiter of wants and needs.

          1. James C. Sherlock Avatar
            James C. Sherlock

            You failed to answer to the question.

          2. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            Thought you was a believer; there’s always consequences, n’est pas?

  11. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    While in college, I worked a “counter job”. As part of my “orientation”, the business owner gave me the best advice you can get, “One of the worst reasons to die is for money. The worst reason to die is for other people’s money.”

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