How UVa Responded to Grief

Pop up memorial. Photo credit: WTOP

by James A. Bacon

The shooting of five University of Virginia students Nov. 13 on a bus back from a field trip in Washington, D.C., was understandably traumatic for the young people who witnessed the horror, as it was for family and close friends of the victims, three of whom died.

Indeed, the event was a trauma for the entire UVa community, and the administration treated it as such. The University responded by launching into full therapeutic mode: canceling events and classes, giving students a pass/fail option in their courses, mobilizing counselors, and creating safe spaces.

“There is still profound sorrow and loss that we’re all feeling,” President Jim Ryan said Friday in briefing the Board of Visitors about the administration’s response to the shooting. The horror impacted far more than the homicide victims and those who witnessed the shootings, he said. The circle of those affected included medical professionals who responded to the shooting, football teammates, friends, roommates, and students who sheltered in place during the search for the killer. “This had a large ripple.”

Ryan listed key actions the administration took. Classes were canceled for two days. Events were canceled or rescheduled. Gathering spaces were set up where students could commiserate. Walk-in counseling was made available along with therapy dogs to comfort those in grieving. A basketball game was canceled, as was the remainder of the football season.

Provost Ian Baucom explained that the administration was concerned that the impact might linger and affect students’ ability to function academically. He asked faculty to provide maximum flexibility to allow students to deal with their grief and get them through the exam season, which wound up last week.

Immediately following the shooting, Baucom said, professors were asked to hand out no graded assignments and to impose no penalties for absence from class. Faculty also were directed to provide a grading option for the semester: students would be allowed to convert graded courses into pass/fails. Special consideration was given to students who were on the bus. Their grades as they stood before the tragedy counted as their grades for the entire course.

Robyn S. Hadley, the dean of student affairs, told the Board how the university formed work teams to deal with family liaisons, grief counseling, and communications. The goal was to help students “support and heal together.”

Concern extended beyond those directly affected by the tragedy, she said. One work team reached out to 1,000 students with a connection to a student directly affected.

The therapy dogs, said Hadley, received 700 visits.

“Our community pulled together in a way I’ve never seen before,” Ryan said. Thousands of students spontaneously gathered in a vigil on the Lawn. People created pop-up memorials and left flowers. A moving memorial service was organized. Hundreds of alumni called in with offers to help. The University set up a UVa Strong Fund to raise money for the families of the victims and provide financial support to affected students.

“Grief united the community that makes other differences seem small,” Ryan said, adding that he hoped the university could “hold on to the feeling that we have more in common.”

Ryan also praised Virginia Tech officials who shared their insights of what they had done right and wrong after the 2007 massacre.

Several members of the Board commended Ryan for his leadership in the aftermath of the killings. No one questioned the unprecedented academic leniency or any other aspect of how the administration handled the tragedy.


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23 responses to “How UVa Responded to Grief”

  1. James Kiser Avatar
    James Kiser

    GOD forbid that these young wimps ever have to storm the beaches of Normandy.

    1. You should head down to UVa and tell them that yourself. Surely, you’re tough enough to storm the streets and Charlottesville to make your opinion known.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        What?! Without his tiki torch?!

        Odd that a man not yet born considers D-Day as his pinnacle of courage. Did he have nothing of his own?

        1. LarrytheG Avatar

          only conservatives were at Normandy….

          1. Nancy Naive Avatar
            Nancy Naive

            As sperm maybe.

      2. James Kiser Avatar
        James Kiser

        why they are not going to listen and I doubt any of those wimps know how to fight except as a mob.

      3. James Kiser Avatar
        James Kiser

        Nah they couldn’t handle me.

    2. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      GOD forbid indeed. As of late, though, it has been the voters forbidding the neofascists this time around…

      1. James Kiser Avatar
        James Kiser

        Find it odd you consider the Taliban a democracy ( I don’t think we should have gone there either unless we killed every one and destroyed the Muslim govt. We haven’t won a war since WW2.)

        1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
          Eric the half a troll

          Very little difference between the Taliban and Rightwing Christofacists…

          1. James Kiser Avatar
            James Kiser

            who ?

  2. William O'Keefe Avatar
    William O’Keefe

    All of these actions may justify the praise that they have received but what about an independent review of the prevention policies that are in place and why they failed?

    1. They are undertaking an independent review. The school asked for it and a special counsel was just named by the AG’s office.

  3. walter smith Avatar
    walter smith

    I’m sorry to be mean. It was too much. Life has to go on. That means no diminishment to the kids shot. Every day, people die in car wrecks or get shot in Dem Hellhole cities or die “unexpectedly” (which seems to be happening a lot lately and don’t anybody ask if the mRNA “vaccine” could have anything to do with that (Twitter and Fakebook will take you down!)).
    And this case was bungled, but I am not expecting a lot from the review. A mild whitewash perhaps, but not a truly independent top to bottom examination with fault found.

    1. The rhetorical tone in the face of tragedy has changed dramatically over the past generation. Perhaps I missed something, but I have yet to hear a UVa administrator urging students to display “strength,” “resilience,” or “fortitude” in relation to the tragedy.

      A buddy of mine, Murph, died in a car wreck driving back to Cville from New Orleans. I heard of his demise only by word of mouth. The administration did not notify the student body. Nothing appeared in the Cavalier Daily. His friends weren’t offered grief counseling. Admittedly, Murph’s death was less tragic in the sense that he did not die in a horrific mass shooting. But there was a different expectation back then — we were expected to keep a stiff upper lip and carry on.

  4. James Wyatt Whitehead Avatar
    James Wyatt Whitehead

    When I graduated from Stonewall Jackson High School in 1988, six of my classmates were tragically taken. They died from illness, disease, suicide, and drinking/driving from what I can recall. I knew all of them too. It seemed the only time we ever heard from the principal was to announce the latest tragedy during announcements. I don’t remember any slack given for grades or responsibilities. I don’t think an effort was made to provide counseling. I didn’t even know who my guidance counselor was. I can’t recall my parents saying much about this either.
    I do remember Mrs. Buckey and Mr. Lawrence gave wise counsel on how to get through the tragedies. School was not cancelled but an excused absence was permitted to attend funeral services. The class of 1988 was resilient, and graduation had more meaning than perhaps in the past. Classmates and friends pulled together on their own.

    Not saying who is right or wrong but what a contrast in dealing with tragedy. I hope and pray the students at UVA can demonstrate the resilience the Raiders from SJHS knew.

    1. Nancy Naive Avatar
      Nancy Naive

      Uh yep, and just look how we turned out.

      1. The rhetorical tone in the face of tragedy has changed dramatically over the past generation. Perhaps I missed something, but I have yet to hear a UVa administrator urging students to display “strength,” “resilience,” or “fortitude” in relation to the tragedy.

        A buddy of mine I knew as “Murph” died in a car wreck driving back to Cville from New Orleans. I heard of his demise only by word of mouth. The administration did not notify the student body. Nothing appeared in the Cavalier Daily. His friends weren’t offered grief counseling. Admittedly, Murph’s death was less tragic in the sense that he did not die in a horrific mass shooting. But there was a different expectation back then — we were expected to keep a stiff upper lip and carry on.

    1. how_it_works Avatar
      how_it_works

      If it was still the 1980s they might try blaming it on a computer error.

      1. James Wyatt Whitehead Avatar
        James Wyatt Whitehead

        Syntax error. That is what the Commodore Vic20 always would tell me.

        1. how_it_works Avatar
          how_it_works

          Saw this years ago and thought it was funny:

          “Who is General Failure, and why is he reading drive C: ?”

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