The Chambers family. Photo credit: Richmond Times Dispatch

by Dick Hall-Sizemore

Painting racial slurs on the face of an unconscious Black teenage boy is wrong.

That being said, a recent incident in the Richmond area leads to a lot of questions, including concerning the quality of reporting done by the Richmond Times-Dispatch.

According to an RTD on-line story Friday by reporter Mark Bowes, a Powhatan special prosecutor was looking into a 2020 incident in which a 16-year-old Black youth passed out intoxicated at a party in Powhatan County. While he was unconscious,”… the N-word, the letters KKK, a drawing of a penis, the phrase “F— BLM” and ‘White Lives Matter’ [were] scrawled on his head.” Also, he was draped with a Confederate flag and a sex toy was placed next to his head. As teenagers will do, others at the party took pictures of him and posted them on social media. Reportedly, this type of thing had been done before, as a “party joke.”

Two days later, the parents of the boy showed up at the Powhatan’s sheriff’s office saying their son had been “assaulted.” After taking their statement, a deputy advised them to consult with the commonwealth’s attorney and scheduled an appointment for them. They did not keep the appointment. The sheriff’s office said they contacted the parents at least two times following their first visit and were told the parents did not want to file a report or proceed with criminal investigations.

In December 2021, about fifteen months after the incident, the parents contacted the Powhatan sheriff’s office and said they wanted to file a report. The sheriff’s office investigated, but determined that a criminal warrant for misdemeanor assault could not be obtained because the statute of limitations of one year had elapsed. It turned the case over to the commonwealth’s attorney for any possible further action.

Because of conflicts with the parents’ “advocate,” Sa’ad El Amin, the Powhatan Commonwealth’s Attorney asked the court to assign the case to another prosecutor. The Petersburg commonwealth’s attorney was appointed. An assistant commonwealth’s attorney from Petersburg said she had reached out to the family but had not heard back.

Yesterday, the family held a public rally. The rally was covered for the RTD by another reporter.  The story on the rally downplayed the parents’ delay in filing a report. The story did not mention that the parents had originally told the sheriff’s office they did not want a criminal investigation. The story did feature the young man’s and his parents’ claim that a hate crime had been committed. Jerry Chambers asked the crowd, “How would you feel if you were physically abused with a sex toy? How would you feel if you were surrounded by guns all night while also being the only Black man in the room?” He did not mention that he was passed out drunk on the sofa. If all those people having guns made him uncomfortable, why was he there in the first place?

The young man reported that he had attempted suicide earlier this year. I have a lot of sympathy for him and hope that he is able to find mental healing.

I have to question the parents’ motives in this situation. At first, they don’t want a criminal investigation. Then, when they likely knew a criminal charge could not be lodged due to the statute of limitations, they filed a complaint, then held a public rally, and complained that the police had not done enough, although they had yet to respond to requests from the Petersburg CA to meet. There were a lot of speeches about hate crimes. Where was all this rage two years ago? And, has anyone asked those parents, “How was it that your 16-year-old son passed out drunk at a party held in another county (they lived in Chesterfield) in a house rented by a 19- year-old? Did you know where your son was that night?”


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42 responses to “A Lot of Unanswered Questions”

  1. Without question, what happened to the young man was disgraceful… even if the epithets were an immature, adolescent “joke.” If I were the parent of one of the kids who perpetrated the “joke,” I would administer a severe ass kicking (assuming I could get a straight story out of the little punk).

    Also, I can well understand how the parents of the lad would be incredibly upset. The “joke” was demeaning, humiliating, and just plain unacceptable. If the “joke” induced the young man to try to commit suicide, I, too, would be outraged.

    However, as Dick indicates, there’s more to the story than the narrative peddled by the organizers of the rally. The kid had passed out, which suggests that the people who wrote on his head were intoxicated. Indeed, they were likely partying together as friends. It’s not as if the kid were dragged off the street and had this done to him.

    This was not a hate crime. What’s the crime? The act probably wasn’t even motivated by hate. It was cruelly and intolerably disrespectful, to be sure. It warrants some kind of sanction, more than a rap on the knuckles — but not a criminal one.

    If progressive ideals of schoolroom “restorative justice” were applied, the victim and perpetrators would sit down in a room together, the victim would explain how hurt he was by the incident, and the perpetrators would apologize and learn from the experience. Such an approach might be appropriate in this case, depending upon circumstances and context of which we are ignorant. If the perpetrators have expressed no remorse — there is no indication in Dick’s post if they have or not — perhaps something sterner would be called for like forcing them to make a groveling apology in front of schoolmates, teachers, and parents.

    Not every insult rises to the level of criminal behavior. There are other ways for society to express disapproval. If the parents of the afflicted lad pursued those avenues and met opposition, well, that would part of the story, too, and it should be told.

    1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      “The kid had passed out, which suggests that the people who wrote on his head were intoxicated. Indeed, they were likely partying together as friends.”

      With friends like that… this was not just a spoof. These drunk kids understood the racial implications of the n-word and invoked the Confederacy. Yes, they were drunk and not thinking which is ALWAYS when they say the quiet part out loud and we get to see what they have really been taught by society and their parents. This happens all too often in today’s world and demonstrates clearly that we are not done with racism in America. Far from it. But maybe such a topic would be too “divisive” for our public schools… right…?! Parents have a Right to teach racism at home and the system should not be allowed to expose or undermine them… right…?!

      1. Matt Adams Avatar
        Matt Adams

        Isn’t this were you should indicated “allegedly”?

        1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
          Eric the half a troll

          No, I believe they are their actual parents…

          1. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            “Eric the half a troll 4 minutes ago
            No, I believe they are their actual parents…”

            The alleged remark were regarding the claims of the teen. Just merely applying your own standard.

          2. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            I do not believe the photographs are alleged. They exist and are public. So the only thing alleged is which person did the deed. That remains to be determined/demonstrated.

          3. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            So the individuals who acting childish is unknown, as is their race and the like. So again, that’s allegedly using your own previously established rules.

          4. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Hmmm… I alleged nothing about the race of the perpetrators nor who they were… so still failing to see where I needed to insert “allegedly”.

          5. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            “Eric the half a troll James A. Bacon • 19 hours ago
            “The kid had passed out, which suggests that the people who wrote on his head were intoxicated. Indeed, they were likely partying together as friends.”

            With friends like that… this was not just a spoof. These drunk kids understood the racial implications of the n-word and invoked the Confederacy. Yes, they were drunk and not thinking which is ALWAYS when they say the quiet part out loud and we get to see what they have really been taught by society and their parents. This happens all too often in today’s world and demonstrates clearly that we are not done with racism in America. Far from it. But maybe such a topic would be too “divisive” for our public schools… right…?! Parents have a Right to teach racism at home and the system should not be allowed to expose or undermine them… right…?!

            But you in fact did and you in fact berated Bacon for an article just last week because he didn’t provide alleged. So either adhere to the same standards you hold others or don’t comment.

          6. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            What race did I allege the perps were?

          7. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            “Eric the half a troll 37 minutes ago
            What race did I allege the perps were?”

            “Alleged” and you indicated “racism”, so it was implied.

            Thus again illustrating you’re unable to adhere to your own standards.

          8. Eric the half a troll Avatar
            Eric the half a troll

            Oh… implications are they…? So I alleged nothing about the race of the preps… according to you I implied it… you do realize you are now alleging that I made implicated allegations… right…. go find another bone to gnaw on. I stand by my original posts and reject your attempt to assign some sort of double standard on my part. Thank you for playing… out.

          9. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            You called people racist Eric, you can play word games all you’d like, but your commenting history tells anyone story.

            You can reject it all you like, doesn’t make it not true. However, it has never been in any doubt you’re a hypocrite.

          10. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            You called people racist Eric, you can play word games all you’d like, but your commenting history tells anyone story.

            You can reject it all you like, doesn’t make it not true. However, it has never been in any doubt you’re a hypocrite.

    2. James McCarthy Avatar
      James McCarthy

      Authorities ought to determine whether this qualifies as a hate crime. At a minimum, it is an assault as the perpetrators physically touched the victim.

  2. Eric the half a troll Avatar
    Eric the half a troll

    “And, has anyone asked those parents, “How was it that your 16-year-old son passed out drunk at a party held in another county (they lived in Chesterfield) in a house rented by a 19- year-old? Did you know where your son was that night?””

    and

    “If all those people having guns made him uncomfortable, why was he there in the first place?”

    An do you say that female rape victims shouldn’t complain if they dress “that way”…? Come on, Dick. The parents handling of the complaint and a blame the cops rally.. legit… but victim blaming…? I know you don’t believe that…

    1. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
      Dick Hall-Sizemore

      I don’t see this as “victim blaming.” He should take some responsibility for drinking so much that he passed out. And his lament that he was “surrounded by guns all night while also being the only Black man in the room” rings hollow. Did anyone prevent him from leaving? If so, there is grounds for a charge of abduction. I would have been nervous, too, in a house full of armed teenagers drinking. So, I fail to see the hate crime there. They would have had the guns if he had been white, Black, or American Indian.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        I realize that it’s a link to Rolling Stone in a UVa alumni rich environment, but there were bodies…

        https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/tyler-hadleys-killer-party-54270/

        These are NOT as rare as one would think.

      2. Eric the half a troll Avatar
        Eric the half a troll

        I’m sorry Dick but “she shouldn’t have been drinking the roofie-laced beer to begin with – she should take some responsibility for being date raped” is victim blaming.

        1. Dick Hall-Sizemore Avatar
          Dick Hall-Sizemore

          I agree with your example. I don’t think they are analogous to this situation.

  3. f/k/a_tmtfairfax Avatar
    f/k/a_tmtfairfax

    Sounds like “buyer’s remorse.” The facts (presumed to be true) certainly warrant prosecution and, IMO, the toughest sentence permitted assuming conviction. But with the chief exception of murder, criminal prosecution of an alleged crime is subject a statute of limitations in every state.

    Aas offensive as the allegation are, I can understand the victim’s parents deciding not to request prosecution. But when one makes that decision, it forecloses a request to prosecute after the statute of limitations runs. So, effectively demanding prosecution after this point is irresponsible.

    1. Kathleen Smith Avatar
      Kathleen Smith

      When they consider the statute of limitations, they need to consider that the internet photos are forever. What a shame!

  4. Kathleen Smith Avatar
    Kathleen Smith

    The big unanswered questions?

    Who gave these kids alcohol?

    How did a 19-year-old rent a house?

    Why did the parents (of the kids and kid in question) not keep a better watch in the first place?

    Parents: I was a parent of two teenagers a while ago, I would have been in trouble today with cell phones, social media and the internet. I feel for you. What a mess! My advice, know your kids’ friends and don’t put your head in the sand like an ostrich.

  5. Stephen Haner Avatar
    Stephen Haner

    Sa’ad El Amin. That explains much.

    One important thing we don’t know is how the knuckleheads who did this responded, whether they were aggressive in the aftermath or perhaps realized they had behaved stupidly, and sought to make amends. Were they supposed friends and thus penitent? That might explain the parents being ambivalent about filing charges. Teen-agers soaked in alcohol and armed with camera phones are not known for their judgment. In fact, they basically act like idiots.

    1. Eric the half a troll Avatar
      Eric the half a troll

      Another incident several months later…

      “After an investigation, detectives determined that a friend of the teen had pulled up his shirt and showed a firearm tucked into his pants, stating, “I am not afraid to shoot anybody,” according to a summary provided by the sheriff.”

      These are not just “knuckleheads”. They have been taught well and you see the results.

      1. Nancy Naive Avatar
        Nancy Naive

        Private schools, no doubt.

    2. James McCarthy Avatar
      James McCarthy

      Does the name Sa’ad El Amin also tell you that he is an attorney and graduate of Yale Law School? Tell us how the name explained things to you.

      1. VaPragamtist Avatar
        VaPragamtist

        Not to speak for Haner, but I imagine he’s referring to the person, not the name. Sa’ad El Amin is well known to those in the Richmond area–he resigned from City Council in the early 2000’s after being disbarred for ethics violations and pleading guilty to defrauding the US government (something like close to a million dollars in back taxes if I recall correctly). Also an issue with defrauding a client.

        He’s a well-educated civil rights advocate. . .but I wouldn’t consider him trustworthy or ethical.

        1. Stephen Haner Avatar
          Stephen Haner

          When I first met him his name was Jeroyd X. Greene and I interviewed him for the W&M Flat Hat. One of his first controversies. So a while back. Just wouldn’t be my go-to if the family asked me for a referral. Leave it there.

          1. James McCarthy Avatar
            James McCarthy

            Inside info without context is misleading. Who knew you knew who.

          2. Matt Adams Avatar
            Matt Adams

            “James McCarthy Stephen Haner • 12 hours ago
            Inside info without context is misleading. Who knew you knew who.”

            Public knowledge is pubic knowledge, you made an assumption and look where that landed you Jimmy.

      2. Matt Adams Avatar
        Matt Adams

        “James McCarthy Stephen Haner • an hour ago • edited
        Does the name Sa’ad El Amin also tell you that he is an attorney and graduate of Yale Law School? Tell us how the name explained things to you.”

        You should really stop projecting your personal bigotry onto others.

  6. killerhertz Avatar
    killerhertz

    perhaps he’s related to jussie smollet

  7. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    Must have a big head to write all that, but if it was less than 14 pt type face, it would be too small to read.

    Wrong, but illegal?

    R.A.V. vs St. Paul. If burning a cross is free speech, then surely writing is. Great decision with caveats. Scalia wrote the majority opinion and there were two concurring opinions arguing that the majority opinion, with which the concurring justices agreed, was wrong. Hello.

    Ah, the good ol’ days when getting drunk and passing out just meant waking up wherever your friends thought it would be funny, but not defaced.

  8. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    FWIW, face-writing on drunks is the subject of 10s of 1000s of online vids. MSMD.

    1. Stephen Haner Avatar
      Stephen Haner

      Ahhhhh. Tik-Tok strikes again. This should have been mentioned first.

  9. Nancy Naive Avatar
    Nancy Naive

    “When a majority of court districts have Republican-appointed judges, law school students pay a high price for not being exposed to conservative thought.” — JAB

    This is worthy of being mentioned in every BR article on the justice system…

  10. LarrytheG Avatar
    LarrytheG

    walks, talks and quacks like a nothingburger.

  11. f/k/a_tmtfairfax Avatar
    f/k/a_tmtfairfax

    The situation remains the parents did not want to bring criminal charges before the statute of limitations ran.

  12. Ruckweiler Avatar
    Ruckweiler

    Methinks someone finally convinced them that “You CAN get money out of this” and now the drumbeat increases. Of course, a roomful of drunken teenagers had nothing to do with this. Yeah, right. Race hustling at its lowest.

  13. Merchantseamen Avatar
    Merchantseamen

    Everyone forgets the obvious. “follow the money”. Always follow the money.

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